FAMILY OFFICES · ADVISERS
Family offices and a private concierge: how to work together
How a family office, private bank or wealth adviser can work with a private concierge without losing control: mandates, approvals, confidentiality, budgets, reporting and a single point of contact for the family.
Published 5 November 2026 · ATLAS MAISON editorial team
- The principle
- The concierge works alongside the office, never around it
- Mandate
- Who may request, who approves, and spending limits
- Payments
- Suppliers paid by the family or the office directly
- Reporting
- A written record of requests and bookings
- Discretion
- A mutual NDA covering the family and the office
Family offices are built to manage capital, not to find a villa in Saint-Tropez for the second week of August or a doctor in Courchevel at midnight. A private concierge fills that gap, provided the relationship is set up properly from the start.
Why offices use a concierge
Lifestyle requests arrive at all hours, in many countries, and usually urgently. Handling them in-house takes senior people away from their real work. A concierge with relationships across Europe, the Americas and the Gulf handles them, while the office keeps oversight.
Setting the mandate
We agree in writing who in the family may make requests, who approves spending, the limits above which approval is always needed, and who we may speak to in the office, the household and the security team.
Payments and budgets
Suppliers are always paid directly by the family or the office, in their own name. We invoice only our membership and, where it applies, our service charge. Budgets per trip or per season can be agreed in advance.
Confidentiality
A mutual NDA covers the family and the office. Bookings can be made under agreed names, and we never name our clients, anywhere.
Day to day
One dedicated contact for the family, a shared written record of requests and bookings for the office, and a monthly summary if the office wishes. Larger projects, such as a relocation, a property search or an event, are scoped and quoted separately before any work begins. Read more about our private office service.
Family offices and a concierge: questions
Can a family office control spending through a concierge?
Yes. We agree approval limits in writing, and suppliers are always paid directly by the family or the office.
Will the concierge replace our staff?
No. We work alongside house managers, assistants and security teams, never around them.
Can we receive reports?
Yes. The office can receive a written record of requests and bookings and, if wished, a monthly summary.
Do you sign NDAs with family offices?
Yes. A mutual NDA covering the family and the office is signed before any detail is shared.